This silky whipped condensed milk frosting is so soft that it’s like eating a cloud. It is perfect for spreading over a cake and isn’t super sweet. It is the perfect mix of airy and delicious.

Silky smooth and super soft, this whipped frosting is like eating a creamy cloud. It is only slightly sweet and doesn’t use any powdered sugar. This sweetened condensed milk frosting is begging to top your next cake.
I think this is the silkiest frosting I’ve ever tried and I have made a lot of frosting recipes! If you think most frosting is too sticky sweet, you have to give this a try.
This recipe actually started as a suggestion from one of you! A recipe shared in the comments of the best buttercream recipe gave a recipe from a friend’s Polish mother.


It involved cooking a can of sweetened condensed milk and stirring in some powdered sugar and vanilla. Then whipping the cooled mixture with butter and shortening.
The poster promised there was just a hint of sweetness and it is delicious. So of course I had to give it a try… with a few slight tweaks.
To me part of the point of a cooked frosting is not using powdered sugar. So I adjusted to using granulated.


Then because a lot of powdered sugar has a stabilizer like corn starch added to keep it soft, I decided to add a smidge of flour hoping to keep it from being too loose.
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So the result is a cross between ermine frosting (which I really enjoy) and the submitted recipe.
This frosting lived up to the hype. It really is just sweet enough to be satisfying but not too sweet at all.
It is like a cloud came to rest on your cake. It is so airy, fluffy, silky, smooth.
Now a word of warning: like ermine, this frosting is soft at room temperature. It is great for simple designs, but I wouldn’t use it for any sort of intricate decorations or fine details.


It was fabulous spread over chocolate depression cake baked in a 9×13″ pan and tasty with confetti cake mix in a jar. And tasted great on chocolate pumpkin cupcakes as well.
It spreads like a dream. Then I just took the back of a spoon to swirl it around a bit. It held the swirls wonderfully and a few sprinkles finished it off.
Tips and tricks:
- The sweetened condensed milk mixture should be a thick paste when you cook it down. It will thicken up even more as it cools.
- Be sure the sweetened condensed milk mixture is at room temperature or cooler before you mix it with the butter and shortening.
- You don’t want the sweetened condensed milk to take on any color. If you accidentally cook it too long and it caramelizes a bit, all is not lost. Make creamy caramel frosting instead!
- If your frosting is softer than you are used to, try chilling it for a bit and then beating it again. If it’s still loose, beat in a cup or two of powdered sugar.
- This frosting is best on a single layer cake. For more layers or piping, I’d stiffen it up with a bit of powdered sugar first.


Fluffy whipped sweetened condensed milk frosting made a great snow white base for this sunny side up egg cake. The possibilities really are endless!
Is there a difference between whipped frosting and whipped cream?
Yes, whipped cream is made from beating air into a mixture of heavy cream and sugar. Whipped frosting is also light and airy, but is more stable for topping cakes and other desserts.

Whipped Sweetened Condensed Milk Frosting
Equipment
Ingredients
- ⅔ cup granulated sugar
- 2 Tablespoons all-purpose flour
- 14 ounce sweetened condensed milk
- ⅛ teaspoon salt
- 1 Tablespoon vanilla extract
- 1 cup butter softened
- 1 cup shortening
Instructions
- In a saucepan, stir together sugar and flour.⅔ cup granulated sugar, 2 Tablespoons all-purpose flour
- Add can of sweetened condensed milk and stir until mostly combined.14 ounce sweetened condensed milk
- Put pan over medium heat and bring to a low boil, stirring frequently.
- Boil for 2-3 minutes, stirring constantly.
- Remove from heat and stir in salt and vanilla. Cool completely to room temperature or cooler.⅛ teaspoon salt, 1 Tablespoon vanilla extract
- Beat butter and shortening until smooth and creamy. Add the cooled sweetened condensed milk mixture and beat on high for 10 minutes.1 cup butter, 1 cup shortening
- Frost cake immediately or store in the refrigerator until ready to use.
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Can I use coconut oil instead of shortening?
Like you, I was wondering that, then thought probably not since coconut oil melts so easily it might not hold up as well. I'm waiting for Carlee's answer, too.
Oh my goodness, sorry! I thought I had replied to this already. I have not tried it, so I cannot say for sure. But, like Donna, I would have some reservations about it working correctly. I have not worked much with coconut oil in frosting, maybe that is something I should look into more.
What kind of flour do i use . Thank you
Just regular all purpose flour <3 I hope you enjoy it!
That frosting looks so smooth and delicious.
It really is! <3
This I need to try asap! Gorgeous!
I hope you love it!
Mmmm! I would love to dig into this frosting with a spoon right now! The chocolate cake does look delicious though. Decisions, decisions! :-p have a great week Carlee.
It is soooo fluffy! You might as well make a little cake too, I mean what can it hurt?! That way it feels official 😉
So fluffy! I definitely need to give this a shot!
It's like a cloud!
Well here is another frosting! I totally agree, if I am going to cook my frosting, I am not going to use powdered sugar. Thank you for the recipe. I like that you took advice from someone who commented on your blog. It is nice when we can learn from each other.
It is and I love getting suggestions from readers. This one was definitely a winner!
Hi Carlee, I love your description and the thought of eating fluffy cloud covered cake appeal to me. Ina couple of weeks I'm inviting some of Mums friends round for a very belated birthday tea, but she's not a fan of sweet icing. This sound like the perfect solution until I saw yoru caramel frosting recipe (how did I ever miss that one?).
xx
They are both great options! How fun to have a belated birthday tea too. My husband is always a fan of dragging his birthday out for as long as he can get away with 😉
I guess I know what frosting is next on my list to try! Sounds wonderful!
If I remember right, you like the ermine, so you are going to love this one too!
Happy Fri-YAY!! There is a reason why you re the queen of frosting!! How petty and oh so delightful!! May your weekend be sweet too!
You are so sweet, Andrea. Thank you!